For experienced swinger couples, they no longer have the concerns of why their partner wants to have a threesome, because they have figured out that they both want it. A swinger couple often is facilitated by one party, either the wife or husband. More likely the husband and women are suspicious creatures. In this case, it often causes misunderstandings. Why does my partner want to have a threesome? Is he tired of me? This is very common before she figures out that she also love threesome hookup. However, due to the misunderstandings, it can cause trouble in their marriage or relationship. Sometimes the trouble can turn into a disaster. Therefore, I think it is necessary to answer the questions asked most by the new swinger couples to eliminate the concerns once and for all. If you think you are one of them, you can keep reading and I am sure you will find it useful.
Q: My husband and I have married for almost 8 years and have not been able to perform sexually for quite a long time. Recently, he brought up an idea, saying that he wants to have a threesome. He said that it could spice up our relationship. I was so shock at first. I can't believe it that he wants to sleep with another girl. Is he tired of sleeping with me? Does that means he doesn't love me anymore? What is his actual motivation? I am so worried.
A: I understand that 8 years is quite a long time and your sexual life is not so well compared to those newly married. First, I think you should be glad that your husband brought it up instead of cheating on you. That should eliminate the concern of you thinking that he doesn't love you. If he doesn't love you, I think he will not want to have a threesome with you, but more likely cheating on you. This is a good sign. Second, it is very possible that your husband thinks your life do needs some spice-up, given the fact that you have not been able to perform sexually for quite a long time. Every person has its' sexual needs. Threesome can really be a good spice-up to your relationship if that is okay to you. Third, you have to understand that almost every man has a fantasy about having a threesome with two women in one bed. This is absolutely normal. That does not mean he is tired of you. Forth, do not say no at once. Consider it first. Threesome hookup is not so bad actually. You might like it when you actually try it. If you reject it right away, you are pushing your husband away from you. It is possible that he might find another way to do it without you. You definitely don’t want that to happen, right? Find your match on single hookup apps.